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Spankees   Ladies who offer spanking services - on the receiving end or switching!
Clubs   List of clubs that organise spanking parties
Blog   All the latest on the UK spanking scene, and Spankeefinder listings 
Escorts Ladies who offer spanking in addition to their escort services
Directories ..which list some submissive ladies
Personals   Links to sites with spanking personals
Links a few of my favorite spanking site
Tribute  Tribute to David, the founder of Spankeefinder
Your web page  Find out how to get your own Spankeefinder web page

What is Spankeefinder for?

Spankeefinder enables gentlemen to make contact with willing ladies who enjoy being spanked by generous clients. Many of these ladies will also agree to spank their clients if requested. There are many web sites listing escorts or dominant women, but there are few sites which can provide a comprehensive list of submissive ladies. Spankeefinder is the most comprehensive spanking contact site in the UK.

We can also provide simple, free web pages for professional female spankees.  Find out how to get your own free web page on Spankeefinder.

Spankeefinder is completely free of charge for use by spankees, escorts, and gentlemen clients. We are proud to offer this free site to support the thriving UK spanking community.

Respecting limits

It must be stressed that gentlemen spankers must respect all the limits set by spankees.  Any activity which goes beyond the consent of the spankee amounts to criminal assault. A spankee expects to feel a degree of pain while being spanked, but it is the responsibility of the client to remain within the pain thresholds set by the spankee.

The ladies listed on the Spankees page are offering fun spanking, usually with no sex or sexual contact.  Any gentleman making any sexual move against a spankee, without their consent, is committing an indecent assault.

The ladies listed on the Escorts page offer sexual  services in addition to some spanking services.  Again their limits must be respected. At Spankeefinder we try to list escorts who will provide a moderate to full spanking service in addition to their escort services..

The Spankee and Escort listings are general categories. Some spankees may offer sexual services, and some escorts can take a firm spanking, but this should never be assumed.

What is spanking?

This site is about fun spanking, from smacking with the hand on the bottom, to the use of a range of implements.  We do not condone severe and brutal spanking under any circumstances. Even if accepted by a spankee or escort, that type of behaviour is abusive and could result in injury.  Also, even fun spankings must be fully consented to by the recipient.


To provide feedback, please e-mail us at  However, because of the amount of spam mail we receive please put the words Spankeefinder in the subject line of your e-mail.  Thanks.

We are particularly keen to hear from ladies who offer spanking services and to include them in the Spankeefinder listings.

Note that this is a fast-changing scene and links disappear.  If you spot a broken link, please let us know at the above address.

Listing on this site is absolutely free but a reciprocal link is appreciated


This site is about fun spanking between consenting adults only. None of the spankees or escorts listed is under 18 years of age.  Spankeefinder does not condone real corporal punishment of any form, whether to adults or children.

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