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FAQ

My client/provider isn’t replying to email. Can you get in touch with them for me?

We offer SpankeeFinder as a free resource for spankos to connect, and any relationship established is arranged privately between client and provider.

All of the spankees on our site are independent of us, and we are not involved in their communications with interested clients, or any bookings they accept. 

What if I can’t afford a session?

Providers set their own prices, and usually look down on attempts to haggle. If you are struggling to afford a session, you could consider asking for a shorter booking, or save up over time to see the provider you want.

Why isn’t X event listed on your news page?

We love helping event organisers within the spanking scene promote their gatherings. If you do are aware of an event that you think belong on the SpankeeFinders News page, please do send us the details and we’ll try to make time to share it. Please note that SpankeeFinder is run on a volunteer best-effort basis, and so the more notice you can give us before the event, the more likely it is we’ll be able to promote it.

Can you help me find a spankee who will play with me for free?

SpankeeFinder is a platform for professional spankees to advertise their services, and they deserve to be compensated for their time and energy. If you are looking for a personal date instead of a professional, you could try SpankNet – this hosts a mix of personals ads by professionals and lifestyle enthusiasts, so it’s generally less reliable than hiring a professional.  

What if there isn’t anyone who offers sessions in my hometown?

Spanking is a niche service and there are more providers in the bigger cities. Many clients travel to meet the provider of their choice.

I’ve spotted a bug on your website! Can you fix it?

Thank you! Please contact us with any errors or broken links we may have missed, and we will update them with correct information. SpankeeFinder is an unpaid service that we maintain as a community resource, so we appreciate your support.

Can you help me resolve a dispute with a provider/client?

We do our best to verify that all spankees are genuine providers, but we are unable to provide a mediation or conflict resolution service.

I want to be spanked, can you help me find a spanker?

At present spankeefinder only lists spankees, but we are interested in expanding our service to list disciplinarian tops in the future.